“I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” – John 13:34-35
As disciples of Jesus, Church of the Apostles UCC recognizes that we are to love one another as Jesus loved us. Claiming this mission, we believe that each of us is created in the image of God, worthy of love and respect, without inferiority or superiority. None of us is without sin. Each of us is striving to grow in faith, in our relationship with God and with one another. We recognize that we will fall short and that we can only seek to be better. We understand that being in community with others allows us to share our joys and our burdens, supporting one another in our journeys.
We welcome and value everyone to fully participate in our community regardless of their age, race, culture, national origin, sexual orientation, gender identity and expression, family configurations, economic circumstances, physical, cognitive or emotional abilities, economic class, education, addiction history, or incarceration history. All are welcome at our table, fully participating in our church life, worship and mission as both members and as leaders.
In a divided world, Church of the Apostles understands the value of diversity in God’s creation and seeks to share God’s love in ways that bring about understanding, compassion and justice. We celebrate the gifts and talents within each of us. We seek to use our gifts to fulfill our mission as disciples of Jesus inviting all to join us in that work.
Another synagogue was physically attacked in March. The 2025 survey conducted by the American Jewish Center (AJC) indicates that 93% of American Jews feel that antisemitism is a problem in the US and 70% of the general public agree with that statement. Since the Hamas attack, 86% of American Jews and 63% of the general public believe that antisemitism has increased.
The Council on American Islamic Relations (CAIR) states that Islamophobia is at an all-time high in the US. In 2024, CAIR registered the highest number of anti-Muslim complaints since it started publishing data in 1996. CAIR also noted that employment discrimination reached a new high, comprising 15.4% of all reported complaints.
A large majority of American Jews report hearing one or more antisemitic comments online and/or in person. 21% felt physically threatened by those comments. In the AJC survey, 46% of the non-Jewish population said they saw one or more antisemitic comments either online or in person, but 76% of those people were silent and did not report it.
How can we, as followers of Jesus, help create a community that provides security to those who are not Christians? It can be hard for us to know what to say and how to say it when you face a situation like that. Spend some time now thinking about how you might react and how you might be an ally in that situation.
From the Inclusive Church Team
March’s Inclusive Church focus invites us to celebrate Women’s History Month and honor the countless ways women have shaped Church of the Apostles, our community, and our world. From clergy and lay leaders who have guided decisions, to those who taught our children, organized ministries, and offered care in quiet, faithful ways, women have long been a steady and creative force in the life of COA. We invite you to take time this month to explore the names of the women who have helped make COA what it is today, displayed in the Narthex.
February invites us into Black History Month, a time to reflect, listen, and grow together as a community committed to inclusion. This month, our Inclusive Church focus turns toward understanding the experiences of people of color, both within our congregation and in the wider community, and asking how awareness can help us become better bystanders, neighbors, and friends. What might it feel like to be a person of color in our community? What is seen, what is unseen, and what is carried quietly? These questions invite curiosity and humility rather than assumptions, reminding us that each person’s experience is shaped by their history and the spaces they move through each day.
As part of this focus, we invite you to join our Mocktails & Meaning™ gathering on Thursday, February 19, for a conversation on “Why Black History Matters,” offering space for thoughtful dialogue, shared learning, and reflection. Black History Month is not only about looking back, but about how we live out inclusion today, continuing to build a church where everyone feels seen, valued, and fully welcomed. To learn more, explore the Q&A cards in the Narthex or visit apostlesucc.org/inclusive-refuge.
This month, our focus returns to neurodiversity, with particular attention to Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). One way we live out our covenant is by growing in understanding of how different people experience worship, learning, and community life. ADHD can look different across ages and genders, and not all of its characteristics are immediately visible. For some individuals, staying engaged may involve movement or “fidgeting” such as using a small object, knitting, or holding a textured item during a service or conversation. Recognizing and welcoming these differences helps create a space where more people can fully participate and feel at ease.
The holiday season can be a time of joy, but it can also bring unique challenges for many in our community. This month, our Inclusive Church Team is highlighting ways we can offer compassion, understanding, and support to those who may be experiencing grief, financial strain, loneliness, or other hardships. We’re also lifting the ministries at Church of the Apostles, such as our Holiday Gifting Ministry for Martin Elementary students, our Preschool’s food and toy collections, our Compassion Team, and our Carols of Comfort & Hope service that brings light to those who need it most.
This November, our Inclusive Church focus turns to Neuroableism, the discrimination or prejudice against people who are neurodivergent, including those with autism, ADHD, learning differences, and other neurological variations. Creating inclusive communities means recognizing and valuing the many ways people think, process, and experience the world.
As part of this focus, we invite you to join us for a special Mocktails & Meaning session on Thursday, November 20 at 6:30 PM in the Lobby with Kurt Iobst from Neuroforce. Together, we’ll explore how to recognize neuroableism and take meaningful steps toward inclusion in our communities.
This October, our Inclusive Church focus highlights how we can better welcome and support the LGBTQ+ community. Many LGBTQ+ people have experienced rejection or harm from faith communities, and Christ calls us to offer a safe, loving, and affirming space where everyone knows they are a beloved child of God. Inclusion starts with listening, learning, and honoring people’s identities, even when it feels unfamiliar or challenging.
As part of this focus, Church of the Apostles will be tabling at Millersville Pridefest on October 16, connecting with our neighbors and showing God’s love in action. We will also host a Q&A after worship on October 12 to discuss our Inclusive Church Covenant and answer any questions.
This month, our Inclusive Church topic is Hearing Loss and Deaf Inclusion, called Audism. Hearing loss can take many forms and have different causes, and each person’s experience is unique. Some individuals use hearing aids, cochlear implants, or other devices, but the benefits of these tools vary widely.
To help spread awareness and foster inclusion, we’re excited to share that Allison Carr will be using American Sign Language during worship on Sept. 21st. This will be a beautiful opportunity for our congregation to experience ASL in worship and to learn more about how we can be a welcoming space for all.
When we talk about Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI), the “I” is often the most personal. Inclusion means creating spaces where every individual feels welcomed, valued, and able to participate fully, regardless of background, ability, race, gender, age, religion, or sexual orientation.
But one of the most overlooked dimensions of inclusion is age.
Inclusion ageism occurs when older adults are unintentionally excluded from events, resources, or conversations. For example, a community event promoted only through a smartphone app, or a fitness class designed with only younger adults in mind. While unintentional, these oversights can still leave people feeling left out.
Reference ageism shows up in the language we use, phrases like “You’re too old to learn that” or “She’s having a senior moment.” Even said jokingly, these words can reinforce harmful stereotypes.
Ageist assumptions, such as the belief that older adults can’t adapt or contribute, can have serious effects. Over time, these messages can lead to feelings of isolation, lower self-confidence, and even impact physical and mental well-being.
In reality, older adults offer insight, wisdom, and valuable experience. Inclusion means acknowledging and celebrating that.
As we begin this important journey with our Inclusive Initiative, let’s ensure no one feels overlooked at any age. Because you’re never too old, or too young, to be included, make a difference, or lead the way.
